mailserver: fix muchsync permissions with POSIX ACLs
- Enable posixacl on zroot ZFS pool for /var/vmail
- Set POSIX ACL default granting lass rwX on mail dir (new files inherit)
- Fix /var/vmail permissions after dovecot pre-start resets to 0700
- Fix dovecot-acl-sync to skip cur/new/tmp/.notmuch subdirs
- Change recursive tmpfiles rule to non-recursive to avoid setgid on files