tools/nvim: implement cross-platform automatic theme switching
Replace vim-lumen with custom solution that automatically switches between
ayu (dark) and everforest (light) colorschemes based on system theme.
- macOS: uses defaults read -g AppleInterfaceStyle
- Linux: checks gsettings, kreadconfig5, and COLORFGBG
- Polls every 3 seconds for theme changes
- Provides :RefreshTheme command for manual switching