retiolum: keep non-kartei peers in self.retiolum
starkstrom stays out of the shared kartei registry but should still be
reachable inside the fleet. Its card now lives in retiolum/ in the same
nets.<net> layout kartei and krebs.hosts use, rendered by a copy of kartei
modules/retiolum/hosts.nix, so the entry can move to kartei/lass unchanged if
the rest of krebs should reach it too.
Every superconfig machine injects that set into its tinc hosts: the NixOS
nodes through nixpkgs services.tinc, barnacle through kartei tincr module
(hosts is attrsOf lines, so the entries merge). Previously only starkstrom
itself knew its card, so the fleet had no route to it; now all 16 machines do,
and peers dial its static address directly instead of relaying.
self.retiolum exposes hosts/tincHosts/own, the same interface as kartei, so
both sources merge symmetrically. starkstrom krebs.hosts card is composed from
it -- addresses, aliases and the ed25519 key have one source now; only the
legacy RSA pubkey stockholm insists on stays local.