tools.ci-farm: wait for a healthy builder behind the balancer before building
The client gives up after connect-timeout on a store it has never reached.
At farm start envoy has no builder yet (none joined, or not yet dialed and
health checked through its tunnel), answers with grpc-status 14, and a few
machine jobs failed on their first QueryMissing. Probe a health check through
the balancer until a builder answers it.