configs.autoupdate: use the nix daemon in containers
sync-containers3 containers (radio, yellow) get the host's
/nix/var/nix/db bind-mounted read-only, so nixos-upgrade failed every
night with "opening lock file /nix/var/nix/db/big-lock: Read-only file
system". Talk to the bind-mounted daemon socket instead, like the
autoswitch service does. Only for boot.isContainer, so other machines
are unaffected by that part.
The guard reported "cannot reach" for any nix flake metadata failure,
including this one; say what actually happened instead. nix's own
error is already on stderr above it.